Who hasn’t run into a situation where there are several people having a conversation. They may be talking about…….politics, or how to raise children, or some such.The conversation becomes “heated”, verging on argument. Most folks that find themselves in this position have come to the point where, knowing minds probably won’t be changed, today, they work on winding down the situation, agreeing to disagree (and, probably go home and apply a little of what they heard!). What is the alternative?
With topics that mean so much to a person, such as these, it is awful easy to go too far. First, it becomes yelling. Throw in a couple belly bumps. Add a push, here and there. What’s next? Yep, somebody swings. One swings, so the other takes a swing. Throw in a bystander, or two, and we have a party, of the heinous variety. Maybe, somebody dies. So somebody else, from the opposing faction, has to die, right? Where does this end? DOES this end?
All this was able to be “easily” avoided by just winding down the situation, each person still feeling correct, but “living” with it, accepting things as they are, for now, but working for change. Instead of focusing on who had received the last beating, or insult, or even death, there needs to be an agreement that the only way to stop this “thing” is to just STOP NOW. It seems it’s the only way to prevent an (inevitable?) escalation, when discord begins. If it NOW works for conversation, it can be made to apply to WAR! If no one cares about the lives saved, think about the MONEY SAVED! Everyones’ standard of living goes up, if there’s no war. Hello?